14 best lesbian sex toys vibrators and dildos of 2025
There’s so much more to explore than your classic strap-ons…
By Gabrielle Kassel, Lydia Wang and Honey WyattPublished: 02 July 2025 Jump to Products - 
Best clitoral vibrator
Tenga Iroha Plus - Tori
£120 at Tenga£120 at TengaRead review
Best strap-on set
Lovehoney BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos
£35 at Lovehoney£35 at LovehoneyRead review
Best addition to strap-on play
We-Vibe Sync 2
£110 at Lovehoney£110 at LovehoneyRead review
Best vibrator for scissoring
Le Wand Petite Mini Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator
£100 at Lovehoney£100 at LovehoneyRead review
Best glass dildo
Lovehoney Tentacle Textured Sensual Glass Dildo
£35 at Lovehoney£35 at LovehoneyRead review
Cutest harness
Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs
£30 at Lovehoney£30 at LovehoneyRead review
Best for dual stimulation
We-Vibe Nova G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
£120 at Lovehoney£120 at LovehoneyRead review
Best overall harness
SpareParts HardWear Joque Harness
£115 at Lovehoney£115 at LovehoneyRead review
Best strapless strap-on
Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Strapless Strap-On
£90 at Lovehoney£90 at LovehoneyRead review
Most realistic dildo
Blush Super-Flexible Realistic Packing Dildo
£20 at Lovehoney£20 at LovehoneyRead review
Tenga Iroha Plus - Tori
£120 at Tenga £120 at Tenga Read review
Lovehoney BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos
£35 at Lovehoney £35 at Lovehoney Read review
We-Vibe Sync 2
£110 at Lovehoney £110 at Lovehoney Read review
Le Wand Petite Mini Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator
£100 at Lovehoney £100 at Lovehoney Read review
Lovehoney Tentacle Textured Sensual Glass Dildo
£35 at Lovehoney £35 at Lovehoney Read review
Lovehoney Unisex Crotchless Open-Back Lace Harness Briefs
£30 at Lovehoney £30 at Lovehoney Read review
We-Vibe Nova G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
£120 at Lovehoney £120 at Lovehoney Read review
SpareParts HardWear Joque Harness
£115 at Lovehoney £115 at Lovehoney Read review
Lovehoney Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Strapless Strap-On
£90 at Lovehoney £90 at Lovehoney Read review
Blush Super-Flexible Realistic Packing Dildo
£20 at Lovehoney £20 at Lovehoney Read review Show more As with buying any kind of wellness product, we’ll go right ahead and assume that you want to maximise your new bedmate to give you the most bang for your buck (ie. the most sexual pleasure for your cash).
You might (or might not) be pleased to hear that the only person who can decide what will work for you is you! Every body is different — thus each of us experiences pleasure in different ways.
Before splurging, you’ll need to figure out what that type is for you. ‘The toys you chose depend on the pleasure you want — so is it penetration (oral, vaginal, or anal), external (clitoral, nipple, or other erogenous zones)?’ Loxley recommends asking yourself. ‘Do you want vibration or suction, or nothing at all?’
It’s also worth considering how you and a partner like to play, Loxley notes. ‘Finding the clitoral vibrator that works best for you is a must, and what works for you may not work for your partner — so mutually masturbating with your preferred vibes is a game changer,’ they say.
‘Some people with vulvas also love to grind, so you could insert a toy inside the vagina that also has an external clitoral vibe for your partner to grind on. Or perhaps a vibe pad that can be placed on your partner’s thigh for you to grind on — or just plain old clit to clit rubbing without a toy!’
Those with mobility issues — or those who like to leave their digits free to roam — could also consider a toy that is hands-free, Loxley suggests.
As the vulva is a delicate ecosystem — and there will likely be at least one involved in lesbian sex — you’ll also need to make sure the toys you buy are made from body-safe materials. Silicone, ABS plastic, silicone steel, and borosilicate glass are all generally considered safe for sex toys — as they’re non-porous, meaning they can be properly cleaned to avoid transmitting infections, and last for longer over time.
‘You want to invest in a decent sex toy that’ll last and that is body safe, so think about it well,’ Loxley says. ‘If you’re a beginner or have less of a budget, still buy body-safe toys and lube.’
Should you be someone who likes to play in the shower, double check your new toy is also waterproof, or marked with IPX7 or IPX8.
How we tested the best lesbian sex toys
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Great for harness or hands-free play -
Ergonomic and soft material
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Non-anatomical, if you’re not into that
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A little pricey -
Well-priced for a beginner set
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We love the different dildo options
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Multiple O rings so you can graduate to different dildos, if you like
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Suitable for anal or vaginal penetration
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Harness is not the most comfortable
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Great for dual stimulation
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Comfortable to wear — you won’t feel it poking into you
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Not quiet enough for public play, unfortunately
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Flexible head to make sure it reaches your sweet spots
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Lightweight and great for travel
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Might be too powerful for some
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Tons of texture to pack a punch
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Glass is great for temperature play
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Might be too short for some
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Wear them with a dildo or strapless strap-on
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Wear with your fave thigh-highs
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Comfortable and cute
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Doesn’t come with a dildo
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Flexible and curved arms to work for all body types
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Tons of combination options
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App is not the best on the market
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Comes in purple or black
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Wear as pants or a harness, thanks to the adjustable gusset
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Adjustable waist
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Pricey
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Lots of vibrations to choose from
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You can both get off at the same time
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Only runs for 60 minutes
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Can be bent to whatever shape works for you
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Great for asexual or non-binary lesbians
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Super realistic look and feel
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Only comes in one flesh tone
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Small enough to not get in the way
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Charge lasts 2 hours
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App connection isn’t super strong
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Great for rimming enthusiasts
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Remote works from up to 30 feet away
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Not suitable for beginners
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You’ll barely know it’s there — other than the vibration modes
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Great for solo or partnered play
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Vibrations might not be strong enough for some
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Position it however you want — if you’re not into the whole classic strap position
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Doesn’t require you to plank on top of a partner
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Your thigh will get a little messy
We’ve already said it, but it can’t be mentioned enough — queer sex is criminally under-acknowledged in sex ed at school, so no one will blame you if you’re not totally confident in using lesbian sex toys with a partner.
To help you integrate sex toys into lesbian sex for the first time, we asked psychosexual and relationship therapist Bima Loxley for some words of advice.
1. Shopping is part of the experience
‘Start with perusing the sex toy website together,’ they suggest. ‘Get curious about what toys are available, fantasise about using them, get excited!’
2. Lube it up
‘Lube is a must with toys, unless you prefer the friction feeling, so make sure the lube you buy is toy-safe (silicone lube will destroy silicone toys),’ Loxley says.
‘Yes Organics or Cliterally The Best’s Lube are amazing.’
3. Work up to it
Just because there’s a stereotype that lesbians love strap-ons during sex, it doesn’t mean you have to make that work for you regardless of your own preferences. Try out a few different toys to figure out what kind of stimulation you enjoy.
‘Don’t buy all the toys at once and waste; start gentle and work out what you like,’ Loxley adds.
4. Talk talk
‘Using toys with your play partners shouldn’t be a shameful thing, as they can enhance your pleasure if you want to use them, which is only good vibes,’ Loxley explains.
‘So have conversations about wanting to use a toy outside of the bedroom, with a gentle and curious start up. If you’re the partner who’s being asked for toys, remember it’s probably not about you or your skills, it’s about enhancing what you already have. Toys are not threats and humans just can’t vibe in the same way!’
Why trust WH
As a leading magazine about women’s health (hence the name…) we are firm believers that sexual wellness is, and should be considered more of, a part of our overall health and wellbeing.
We therefore have a ton of sexual wellness experts on-hand to consult when it comes to finding the best sex tech out there, and conduct our own rigorous research and testing to bring the finest products straight to you.
So when we say a sex toy is Women’s Health approved, you can trust that we’ve not just plucked the decision from thin air. You’ll be pleased to hear that we are, actually, lying down on the job. And for good reason!
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- Lube is an essential during sex — here are our faves to stock up on
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